You might be puzzled how 2, 3, 10 people who grew up in the "same" general area (but 10, 20, 30 years apart) can have such different values, attitudes and beliefs?
How can we "see" and "understand" things so differently?
Much of the puzzle, and I'm not saying ALL, can be explained by what was happening in your (or the person you are living with, working with, loving, hating) formative years. Between roughly 8 - 18 we are making sense of how the world works, what we believe, who we can trust. We are forming our personal paradigms through the experiences we are having.
Those experiences are directly influenced by the events and conditions of not only our family and our "neighborhood" but the national and international conditions and forces at work. The people, places, or things that are in the news become reference points, not only for me, but collectively for the others growing and forming at the same time (give or take 20ish years) in my generation.
Now this is where it gets interesting. Those decisions we are making from watching and surviving will be embedded deeply and pulled out as a reference guide for the rest of our lives. We will make job choices, purchasing decisions, relationship mistakes etc. based on those influences of our formative years.
The fun and fascinating part is... We can't help it! Sometimes we can go against the pull of our "generational personality", but for the most part there it is saying:
- "anything is possible"
- "I don't trust institutions"
- "I can do anything"
- "self-sacrifice for the greater good is noble"
So what were a few of these influences that are shaping the 4 generations in our workforce and marketplace?
Traditionalists - formative years were filled with tough times that molded them into hard working, loyal individuals. The Great Depression – the future was dark and having food or a job was a privilege. Sandwiched between the two great wars as soldiers and civilians they banded together to fight as one. They put aside their personal needs for the greater good. Traditionalists value hard work, respect for authority and discipline and above all, work before pleasure.
Boomers - During their formative years the sky was the limit, literally. They put a man on the moon and had opportunities of education, peace and love, freedom of self-expression. Events like Woodstock, icons like the Beatles and dreams from leaders like Martin Luther King created a world of possibility. Yet it was also a world of fierce competition. 80 million people were vying for your job. Boomers were all about building a Stellar Career and staying ahead of their peers.
X-ers - During their formative years they saw their Boomer parent’s work-centric life style and felt the impact deeply. They were the first latch key kids. With corporate downsizing of the 70’s and 80’s they saw their Boomer parents be let go with out warning. Divorce rates were tripling creating more single parent households than ever before. The world was dangerous and full of hostage situations like the Iran Hostage Crisis. With new diseases on the scene like AIDS, suddenly even love was dangerous.
The Xers do not believe in the myth of organizations and institutions as safe paternal figures. They were responsible for making their own after school snacks and managing their own schedules. They are autonomous, self-directed and a little cynical about exactly what leaders were up to.
Millennials- Their formative years are all about being connected and appreciated. These digital natives were born and raised with computers, text messaging, iPods and instant access to information. They are the plug-in generation.
With competitive, optimistic Boomer parents flush with dollars in their mature careers, Millennials have many opportunities, but they also have challenges. They are the first generation to see personal safety as their first concern. They have witness more national killings and international tragedies than any other generation in their formative years. This has built in a resiliency that will support them throughout their lives.
As we work to engage, motivate, inspire or retain these individiuals, knowing where they "came from" generationally can be a distinct advantage.